Should I Use The Term Victim or Survivor?

Understanding the Difference Between “Victim” and “Survivor”

We often use terms like “victim” or “survivor” when discussing sexual abuse and assault. But what do these terms mean, and which one should you use? Let’s explore the differences so you can be better informed and choose the right words.

When the Term “Victim” May Be Appropriate

The term “victim” is often used to refer to someone who has experienced a traumatic event such as sexual abuse or assault. It is often used in a legal context, as in the phrase “victim of a crime.” The term implies that someone has been harmed or violated by an external force and is powerless. This can be empowering for some people looking for validation that their experience was real and valid. Still, it can also be problematic for those who want to focus on healing and move forward from their trauma rather than dwelling on it.

When It’s Best to Use The Term “Survivor”

In contrast, the term “survivor” suggests that the person has survived a traumatic event and is now in a place of strength and resilience. It implies that the person has overcome adversity and is empowered to move past their trauma confidently. This can be empowering for many survivors of sexual assault, as it allows them to reclaim control over their narrative and recognize themselves as strong individuals who have endured great pain but come out on top.

Asking Survivors Which Term They Prefer

Ultimately, there is no right or wrong answer when choosing between these terms—it all depends on the individual’s needs and preferences. Some people who have experienced sexual assault and abuse may identify as victims to validate their experience; others may prefer to call themselves survivors to focus on building strength after their ordeal. Ultimately, every survivor deserves respect regardless of which term they choose for themselves.

Showing Support for Sexual Assault Survivors

By understanding the difference between these two terms, we can create space for all survivors where everyone feels safe enough to tell their story without fear of judgment or stigma. Respectful language helps create an environment where all survivors feel seen, heard, respected, and understood—which is something we should all strive for together.

If you or a loved one need legal assistance after surviving sexual assault, contact Colorado Sex Abuse Law at (303) 835-9227 to receive a free and confidential consultation with a compassionate legal advocate.